Today in Parliament, I urged the Government to give children the right to see both of their parents and grandparents, in the event of a family breakdown.
There are two specific examples from Harlow: the alleged case of a father, and a national charity based in Harlow, the Grandparents' Association.
I have been supporting the father on his e-petition, which I would encourage everyone to sign HERE.
You can see a video of my speech above. Alternatively, the text was:
Robert Halfon (Harlow): Mr Speaker, I have just two brief points to make, about how this issue has affected families in my constituency.
First; there is a father in Harlow, Mr Colin Riches, whose child has allegedly been denied access to him. It is a tragic case, which shows I believe why the law must change.
Second; I am campaigning with the Grandparents’ Association - a national charity based in Harlow - for children to have a legal right to “letterbox” access to their grandparents: the right to send and receive cards at Birthdays, and Christmas.
I have worked with Colin Riches to table an e-petition - number 23102 - and his case is something I have raised many times in Parliament, with the Leader of the House, and others.
The essential crux of his e-petition is that:
“Shared parenting should become the natural position in the UK. It is in the best interest of the child. The law should be there to protect children’s relationships with both parents. It needs to show children that both their parents are treated with equality. So that children who have been cared for by both parents and grandparents do not suffer the pain of a living bereavement.”
I welcome that the Government are looking at this, most recently through the Family Justice Review 2011. This Review was a ratchet in the right direction, because it accepted that:
“More should be done to allow children to have a voice in proceedings,”
But while I welcome the Review, it still does not go far enough to help families such as that of Colin Riches.
I am grateful to the Undersecretary of State for Children and Families, for his sympathetic response to my letter on this issue - where he says that he will
“explore possible options for strengthening the expectation that both of a child’s parents should continue to be involved with the child’s care, post-separation”
And would ask if the Minister would meet with Colin and me, to see if anything can be done?
Secondly, I want to briefly ask the Minister about the work of the Grandparents Association.
Last Thursday I joined them at Number 10 Downing Street, to hand in a petition with over 7,200 names, calling for children to have a right to “letterbox” access, to their grandparents: the right to send and receive cards on special occasions.
This is a very small, but symbolic thing - especially in the run-up to Christmas.
Sadly, across Britain today, thousands of children are denied access to their grandparents - even at birthdays and the holiday season. Often this is caused by family conflict.
To be fair, the Government are looking at this, with the recent Family Justice Review. But more needs to be done.
If the Minister could commit just to look at this, it would be hugely welcomed by the grandparents in my constituency.
It is a very tiny gesture, but it could transform the lives of many families.
Ultimately this is about the rights of children: to know who their family are, and to spend time with them.
In the context of what the Government is doing to support the family, surely this the right thing to do?
First; there is a father in Harlow, Mr Colin Riches, whose child has allegedly been denied access to him. It is a tragic case, which shows I believe why the law must change.
Second; I am campaigning with the Grandparents’ Association - a national charity based in Harlow - for children to have a legal right to “letterbox” access to their grandparents: the right to send and receive cards at Birthdays, and Christmas.
I have worked with Colin Riches to table an e-petition - number 23102 - and his case is something I have raised many times in Parliament, with the Leader of the House, and others.
The essential crux of his e-petition is that:
“Shared parenting should become the natural position in the UK. It is in the best interest of the child. The law should be there to protect children’s relationships with both parents. It needs to show children that both their parents are treated with equality. So that children who have been cared for by both parents and grandparents do not suffer the pain of a living bereavement.”
I welcome that the Government are looking at this, most recently through the Family Justice Review 2011. This Review was a ratchet in the right direction, because it accepted that:
“More should be done to allow children to have a voice in proceedings,”
But while I welcome the Review, it still does not go far enough to help families such as that of Colin Riches.
I am grateful to the Undersecretary of State for Children and Families, for his sympathetic response to my letter on this issue - where he says that he will
“explore possible options for strengthening the expectation that both of a child’s parents should continue to be involved with the child’s care, post-separation”
And would ask if the Minister would meet with Colin and me, to see if anything can be done?
Secondly, I want to briefly ask the Minister about the work of the Grandparents Association.
Last Thursday I joined them at Number 10 Downing Street, to hand in a petition with over 7,200 names, calling for children to have a right to “letterbox” access, to their grandparents: the right to send and receive cards on special occasions.
This is a very small, but symbolic thing - especially in the run-up to Christmas.
Sadly, across Britain today, thousands of children are denied access to their grandparents - even at birthdays and the holiday season. Often this is caused by family conflict.
To be fair, the Government are looking at this, with the recent Family Justice Review. But more needs to be done.
If the Minister could commit just to look at this, it would be hugely welcomed by the grandparents in my constituency.
It is a very tiny gesture, but it could transform the lives of many families.
Ultimately this is about the rights of children: to know who their family are, and to spend time with them.
In the context of what the Government is doing to support the family, surely this the right thing to do?
by Robert Halfon - www.roberthalfon.blogspot.com